GUESS WHO’S BACK?

So, this headline can refer to both myself and the subject of the post.

I’ve written a ton of posts since my last entry but the only problem is they never made it out of my mind and unto the computer screen. This will be addressed, pronto and no, it’s not another empty promise. This is the growth!

Anyway, I was out of town for a week in the wonderful city of Nairobi, Kenya and it was a welcome break from this stressful Lagos but I missed the wife and child quite a bit.

A lot can happen in a week, eh? Well, I returned to find the blinds in the meCenter (my entertainment Center) had been tampered with but of course no one knows how that happened. So, while sat at my work station, seething over the malfunctioning blinds, I notice a blur out the corner of my eye.

I stop.

I stare.

My stare is returned.

He can’t have returned.

YES!

HE!

HAS!!!

AAARRRGGGHHH!!!

Cue the music (remix version please…):
There’s a rat in me guest room, what am I gonna do? There’s a rat in me guest room what am I gonna do?

What’s with the bad Die Hard 5 type follow up, huh?

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MURPHY’S LAW

King of Cool

In it’s basest explanation, Murphy’s Law states that: anything that can go wrong, will go wrong. Ironically, everything appears to have gone very right for one Edward Regan Murphy.

You’ve heard the narrative: a black ghetto child can’t make it out the ‘hood. Eddie burst out of the hood and took over the Hills. He owned Saturday Night Live and his comedy specials, Delirious and Raw still keep audiences laughing hard, decades later. With a long list of movie classics to his credit, audiences say he’s fallen off because his more recent offerings have been more kiddie fodder than adult frolics.

I’m not going to go into detail about whether he has soared or sunk. Everyone is entitled to his or her opinion but one should consider that his kiddie movies have kept the man PAID! However, sticking to character, I digress 🙂

Why have I all of a sudden decided to write about one of the funniest famous people ever (I know non-famous people that are HIGH-larious)? Well, two reasons:

1. I caught the TV special, Eddie Murphy: One Night Only recently on Comedy Central and the tales told, tributes paid plus footage aired brought back memories of his comedic genius and also reminded me that Eddie Murphy is the definition of bad ass!

2. Of late, the unintentional comedy of Lagos ‘big boy and girldom’ has had me fascinated, so this Eddie tribute put ‘big boyism’ in perspective and the wheels started turning…

If you are unfamiliar with Lagos Big Boys and Girls, count yourself lucky (because you don’t have to put up with that BS) or unfortunate (because you’re missing out on some good comedy). Basically, they reckon they are the biggest, baddest and best at everything. They pop bottles in the club for everyone to see but what they hide is the fact they more often than you’d believe pop on credit. It’s a marriage of keeping up with the Joneses and Keeping Up Appearances. Hyacinth Bucket would be very proud.

Anyway, watching stars, past and present, share tales about Eddie (yes, he’s one of those super-duper stars with single name recognition like Michael, Elvis, Madonna, Jack, LeBron), I couldn’t help but think, ‘So called Big Boys and Big Girls, you need to STUDY Eddie Murphy to understand what it really means to be a BIG.’ To paraphrase Jay-Z, “He be the only Big Boy that the Big Boys watch!”

Two stories in particular stood out for me. One by Chris Rock and the other by Keenan Ivory Wayans.

According to Rock, himself, Eddie, Keenan and a bunch of other black guys were out and this white girl came about gushing how Eddie was her favorite, how much she loved him and all that. She really wanted to kiss Eddie and asked if she could, pointing out that she’d never kissed a black man before. As Rock tells it, Eddie responded, “Well, you can’t start at the top baby, you’re gonna have to kiss one of these broke ass niggas.”

The ‘hood’ response to that is, “Like a bawse supposed ta!” A fitting Nigerian response would be, “See levels!”

The Keenan story truly defines what you would expect a Big Boy to be. Boss of all bosses type stuff. The way Keenan put it, night clubs back in the day had a “two brotha minimum” and himself and Eddie were at the door with about 10 other black dudes. The bouncers were like, we know it’s you Eddie but we can only let like four of you in. So Eddie says no problem, instructs four members of the crew to go in and tell every beautiful woman in there that there was a party at Eddie Murphy’s house and in 10 minutes, the club emptied out and everyone headed over to Eddie’s house. About two weeks later, Eddie returned to the club about 20-deep and the ALL GOT IN!

Big Boys and Girls, real or imagined, that’s how the Biggest Boy does it. In the words of Tip Harris, “What you know about that?”

To quote my favorite writer, Bill Simmons, from this fantastic piece about Eddie on his Grantland site, “He was a [Saturday Night Live] cast member at 19, the show’s meal ticket by 20, a movie star by 21, and a full-fledged superduperstar by 22. Tell me when we’ll see that again.”

I honestly can’t tell him – can you?

 

Yes, you just read about Eddie Murphy flossing like it was a serious issue

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WHAT A TANGLED WEB(SITE) WE WEAVE…

Unless you have been sequestered in the mountains over the past two weeks, then you must have heard about ‘My Oga at the Top.’ You haven’t? Or you have but just don’t mind being reminded? Well, rather than ‘trying’ to explain this new phenomenon, you just have a look for yourself (again).

(Incase the video doesn’t show, try this link)

Yes. That is the video clip that over the past two weeks has sent social media engines into hyper-drive with several interpretations of the funny but sad – pathetic, even – exchange that went on in the video above. The major response to the video has been contagious laughter by the people and I, admittedly, at the very least, chuckle, with every new incarnation of this occurrence and will post some of the ones I’ve seen at the end of this entry.

However, as funny as this may appear, in all honesty, it is not a laughing matter. Yes, I’m still laughing but I think I should be crying right now, as should other Nigerians. The viral video further highlights our continued free fall as a nation. Devolution, if you will. If what occurred is put into proper perspective, we just watched the Lagos State Commandant of the Nigeria Security and Civil Defense Corps fumble his way around – within, without, over, under, through, beside… – the answer to the most basic line of questioning: What is your website? In his defense (a very lame attempt, trust me but what am I without digression?), the pedant might say he was not entirely wrong as, perhaps, he really could not categorically give one then because he was not the one going to create it; ‘it’ being ‘his’ website, as a website ‘address’ would have been the proper question but like I said, that is the pedantic view. 🙂

Anyway, as some of you may have just found out, the NSCDC stands for Nigeria Security and Civil Defense Corps. I didn’t know what it stood for before I watched this video and the friend that sent me the link, nor the others he shared it with, knew either. Or at least, no one offered a meaning. So shame on me and I guess any other Nigerian who didn’t know this. OR… is it a shame on the agency and the government (it’s always their fault, isn’t it? – that’s sarcasm, for the uninitiated) for not making themselves known? I mean, the interviewers did try to help us out by finding out the web address but we all saw how that worked out. So, I decided to find out the actual web address of the NSCDC (www.nscdc.gov.ng) and also what the outfit is about. Feel free to visit the website but here are some highlights:

The first item (at the time of posting) you see on the site, under LATEST NEWS is tagged: NSCDC DEPLOYES 5,000 PERSONNELS FOR FCT ELECTIONS

Now, I’m not sure if this is a pedantry issue as ‘speaking/writing good English’ isn’t necessarily a demand in service but it certainly helps. However, alarm bells cannot but go off in my head when I see ‘deployes’ and ‘personnels’ on the home page of a website, a national one at that. It is not very encouraging.

Anyway, moving further through the site, the first three paragraphs of the ABOUT section read thus:

“NSCDC is a para-military agency of the Government of the Federal Republic of Nigeria that is commissioned to provide measures against threat and any form of attack or disaster against the nation and its citizenry. The corps is statutorily empowered by lay Act No. 2 of 2003 and amended by Act 6 of 4th June 2007.

The Corps is empowered to institute legal proceedings by or in then and of the Attorney General of the Federation in accordance with the provisions of the constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria against any person or persons suspected to have committed an offence, maintain an armed squad in order to bear fire arms among others to strengthen the corps in the discharge of its statutory duties

The Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps was first introduced in May 1967 during the Nigerian Civil War within the then Federal Capital Territory of Lagos for the purpose of sensitization and protection of the civil populace. It was then known as Lagos Civil Defence Committee.”

Can we call Commandant Obafaiye Shem’s (yes, that’s his name) response (or lack, thereof) ‘a disaster against the nation and its citizenry?’ You decide. Moving on…

The MISSION & VISION page reads thus:

MISSION:
* Developing structures and training strategies that would contribute to the national security by using modern technology.
VISION:
* To put to work efficiency, humility and integrity in service delivery with a fresh zeal; bring credibility into concept of security.
FOCUS:
Our focus shall be in the area of broad based information networking monitoring of movement.

On the MISSION statement, modern technology like say… the internet?

On the VISION, with regards to it’s Channels Television representative’s performance: where was the efficiency, humility or integrity? There was certainly a zeal but fresh is one of the last words I’d attach to it. And let’s just steer clear of the credibility angle, shall we?

While an entire change of FOCUS is required after this interview, I guess focusing on ‘broad based information’ made little pockets of info like say… a website address, unimportant?

After surfing the NSCDC site, I decided to watch the full interview during which this gem was dropped to try and get an overall feel for what really went down. (Broken down into three parts, you can watch the interview via the channelsweb YouTube page). Commandant Shem (even his name, unfortunately for him, adds to the unintentional comedy) was in the studio to discuss the allegations of fraudulent recruitment activities existing within the NSCDC and 12 other government agencies. It starts with a report of a man (identity concealed) alleging that he was told N150,000 would secure him a job, with a N50,000 deposit and the N100,000 balance to be paid on employment. He has lost all contact with his ‘recruiter’ since the deposit was paid. To Commandant Shem’s credit, he did make, for me anyway, a valid point in this regard, asking how and why, a supposedly poor and unemployed Nigerian would find a way to raise that kind of money and give someone to get him a job. He put the figure at N400,000 – N500,000 though. So, seriously, if you can find a way to raise that much money and still hand it over for the promise of a job? I don’t know what else to say. Yes, I know times are hard and poverty is very real, causing people to act rather irrationally but… I don’t know… Moving on…

Commandant Shem, who took charge of the Lagos office three months ago after being redeployed from Katsina, was there to say that no form of employment scams existed within his agency. Watching him address questions, his internet hit makes perfect sense as it was in line with his performance up to that point and beyond. I hope you do find the time to watch this interview but below are some of the things that struck me while watching:

• When asked how he was certain there were no employment scams going on in the ranks of the NSCDC, he responded, “The truth is, if you’re an insider and you see the kind of leadership we have, you will know this kind of thing cannot take place in Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps.”

(Well… you took us inside and we’ve seen, and I doubt many of us share that confidence.)

• “If fraudster have taken advantage [of a segment of our website], fine but that does not necessarily mean that it is staff of NSCDC involved in this scam.”

(Oh, what a relief! The NSCDC is clean, so it’s totally fine that the website has been compromised and hundreds – maybe thousands – are being mislead. Great job!) 

• When asked what steps were being taken to remove possible false websites, his response: “I am the Lagos Commandant. The question you are asking can be better answered by my ogas at Abuja.” When the question was re-issued, he added, with no explanation, mind, that “they will automatically be closed.”

(Hey, you’re just the Lagos boss and it’s only, what, the main commercial hub of the country? You’re right. You absolutely should be clueless on such matters because the D in NSCDC, Lagos, doesn’t stand for ‘defence’ like it does elsewhere? Roger that! Yes, I am intentionally ignoring the automatic comment. It might turn into a whole blog entry)

• When asked if he had ever visited the website, he first hesitated, uttered a stifled grunt (that very Nigerian, “huh” that I really can’t do justice in words; sort of like “hehn”) before the question was repeated and he offered, “Most often, it’s my admin. You know I told you, I’m just three months old,  so I’m most of the time in operation.” So the question is repeated and he offers, “Personally? No. I have not.” So he is asked if he thinks he can competently talk about what’s going on on his website which he has never visited and he says, “I have staff that gives me information about what’s happening on daily basis. I can’t be in all departments.”

(I’ll leave you alone with this one…)

• He also shared this: “We have possibly the fattest and fastest intelligence gathering system in the country because we are everywhere.”

(…)

There’s a lot more where these came from but you have to see for yourself. This, for all intents and purposes, is an example of the leadership we have today. The sad part is, he might be very good at his job but just lacks the skills of self expression to effectively get his point across but watching the viral clip and the interview in itself, that position is very hard to defend. Where he could have simply said, “I don’t know” or “I’m not sure,” he opted instead to ramble on for a few seconds, forever cementing notoriety. His reassurance on the absence of scamming at the NSCDC is “confidence in its leadership.” That is what the hungry, duped, unemployed citizen you have sworn to defend is supposed to accept? That’s straight up cow’s boyfriend’s doodoo.

We’ve all laughed repeatedly at the video but what about the millions crying while the ‘fattest’ are getting fatter? Nigeria is like a 53 year old man that can’t tie his shoelaces, so he keeps tripping over himself. We are sabotaging ourselves! Where does it stop? What can we do? What do we do? Everything but give up hope but it gets harder every hour. Qualifications mean squat, it’s all about connections. ‘I don’t care about your character, I care about what you can charter and your idle chatter.’ It is a cesspool and we’re all seemingly willingly diving in; head first, ass out for easy access to never ending screwery. Yes, I can still make up words while I’m pissed.

I heard Commandant Shem has since been fired which is probably a rumor but who knows? In the military ranks, in these parts anyway, that often supposedly means redeployed to some outpost out of ‘harm’s way.’ If he’s really been fired, is he to blame, really or he’s just a product of his environment? A result of the system which chronically allows offices of import to be held by individuals who either don’t care, have no clue or both. I mean, the ‘oga pata pata at the top’ did go on CNN to say the citizenry is happy with the power situation… Which way is up?

It hurts just thinking about it, so I’m going to let go now and look for some ice cream to cool down my boiling noggin. So as promised, I will now refresh your memory with the numerous ‘social experiments’ birthed by this unfortunate incident or introduce you to them for the first time. In parting, I will say this… we need a resolution and we are the solution, we just need to find the right formula. Failure to do so, categorically speaking, would be a damn shem.

Top of the morning… or is it?

In the Hottest Seat

Incoming Call

Missed Calls (rumored to be made during the live broadcast)

High-Up Fashion

Romance

Wenger meets his match (and they didn’t qualify)

International News Interest (doctored tweet)

The Hollywood Version

And here he is, the mystery man that has been the flavor of the moment:

What do I have to do to become the oga at the top?

I Am Random!

OF BLACK AND WHITE SMOKE

New Pope, Jorge Mario Bergoglio a.k.a. Pope Francis

Yesterday, March 13th, 2013 – numerically represented as 13-3-13 or the American 3-13-13 – a new pope was chosen, in the person of Jorge Mario Bergoglio, an Argentine gentleman, who subsequently chose the papal name, Francis, after Saint Francis of Assisi. I’m not sure if congratulations (to the Pope, Catholics, Christians, Argentinians or anyone) are in order because requisite protocols in today’s world, particularly in matters of faith, are pretty blurred to me. Faith is possibly the most sensitive subject on the planet and the ‘wise’ tiptoe around it to avoid unnecessary agro but if you quiz most of my friends, wise is not a term they would readily associate with me 🙂 Haters, the lot.

Anyway, before I over-digress this time around, my concern is with our seeming focus on race, tribe, ethnicity, color, creed, gender etc. Everyday, we hear about how the world is becoming a much smaller place – the global village we call it – but yet and still, we can’t seem to pull away from the color-coded lines that apparently still divide us. We saw it in 2008 when Barack Obama (black) and Hilary Clinton (female) were the top candidates for the Democratic Party’s presidential ticket. Racism pops up in football across Europe on a daily basis. Here in Nigeria, the ‘ogas at the top’ feel that our leaders should be cyclically chosen based on ethnicity or geopolitical zone – zoning, they call it. It’s all one huge multicolored mess. Yes, I have ‘segregation’ issues as highlighted here and here in previous blogs. It does my head in.

To state that the new Pope is Argentinian is fine. To highlight that he’s the first Latin-American Pontiff, the first non-European in the modern era, as a matter of fact is fine too. What I wasn’t too fond of was the notion that his ‘third world’ background is a welcome change as it is sure to bring a new perspective into the Vatican. I find this rather bothersome because I would have thought, maybe naively so, that the papal perspective would be that of God and not of some political or human agenda. The ways of the LORD, documented in the Good Book have been cast in stone for centuries, so what gives?

I may be chastised for maintaining an ‘outdated’ view on the matter, to which I say, then isn’t it possible that the papal system itself, may be outdated? Does the Vatican function much differently from Congress, then? If leftist or rightist views exist? I feel that I must point out that this is in NO WAY a condemnation of the Vatican or Catholic doctrine; I am just trying to understand if the ethnic background of a Pope should really matter beyond a pure statement of fact. I mean, after being (s)elected, the first thing they usually do, if I’m not mistaken, is choose an English moniker for themselves like John Paul and Benedict before Francis. What’s that about?

In case you’re wondering, no, I am not Catholic but attended Catholic Primary School, where we were nurtured the Catholic way, attending mass, Catechism classes, observing Lent, the stations of the cross and all that good stuff. Nothing beat the annual Christmas Carols for me, personally. Basically, I have insight to the Catholic way of life and looking back, it was political then as well. With the fundamental problems existing in every sphere of life, one would hope the church was exempt.

However, I am not sure the church, or Vatican to be more precise, has highlighted the ethnic background of it’s choice or whether the choice was made based on ethnicity, race or whatever-have-you, in an attempt to ‘roll with the times.’ As if to say, “Hey, the ‘leader of the free world’ is black, why not shake things up with a Latin-American spiritual head?” No. This has been carried by the 4th estate and ‘regular’ people via social media. It saddens me that the origin of individuals, something that no individual has any control over, is always thrown in the forefront.

Why can’t we just be happy there’s a new Pope who just happens to be Argentinian? Are Argentines suddenly any better or worse because of this one man? Are we non-Argentines now inferior? Will, or maybe more importantly, should this pope reign as an Argentine or just as a man, the chosen representative of God on earth? I just wish people would deal with individuals themselves and not where they’re from or what they look like. If you dislike me, please let it be a character judgment and not a racial, tribal, gender or national one. Do not pick me over the more qualified Indian lady because I am ‘your brother.’ Do not make her the Chief Justice because she’s the popular choice, let her track record do the talking.

May God be with us all. May the new Pope carry out God’s will for the people. May you be hired because you’re qualified and not because you fill the required quota. May you be judged by your ability and not your attire. May ignorance escape you and tolerance embrace you.

That’s all…

(Now to jump on the blandwagon – not a typo – and act all ignorant)

Why does BLACK smoke mean no pope and WHITE smoke mean new pope?

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SEEING RED

In my previous post, I accused the football club I support, Manchester United, of what I then termed robbery, in reference to the purchase of Robin van Persie from bitter rivals, Arsenal Football Club of London.

This post will discuss – hopefully, in brief – another case of alleged robbery involving Manchester United, but this time with the Red Devils on the receiving end.

Last night, March 5th, 2013, Manchester United was defeated by two goals to one at Old Trafford, their home ground, by the visiting Real Madrid team from Spain, thus ending their participation in the UEFA Champions League competition for the 2012/13 season.

The main talking point, which has been widely termed as controversial, was a 56th minute decision by the game referee, Cuynet Cakir of Turkey, to send off Manchester United winger, Nani, for what he deemed a dangerous – reckless, even – tackle on Real’s Alvaro Arbeloa.

(You can view a rather telling gif of the incident here, incase you missed it.)

Nani sent off to an early shower

Manchester United led the game 1-0 at the time, thereby enjoying a 2-1 aggregate lead over their opponents, and were arguably the better side so far in the contest. The red card changed everything, even though there is no way to ascertain whether the outcome would have been any different if United enjoyed its full compliment of players for the duration of the game. In the link above, you can also view British newspaper headlines printed after the game, with a central theme claiming that United was ‘robbed!’

Before I  proceed, let us remember that I am a Manchester United supporter but like I pointed out in my previous post, I am a football fan first, so I always side with football, regardless. Opinions have been wide spread since the incident, so here I am (a bit after-the-fact, really), jumping into the fray with mine – Luís Carlos Almeida da Cunha was justifiably sent off against Real Madrid yesterday. Just watch that gif again and see for yourself.

However, here’s the rub and where most (read: Man U fans) are coming from. While it may be a justifiable sending off, you don’t send a player off in a crucial game like this! I definitely hear that argument and the Red deep down in me supports this statement (well, I did at the time, actually saying to friends, “Oh, I’m no longer watching, the ref has spoiled the game.”).

But here’s the thing… that position is very unfair to the referee, why? Because asking him alone to realize it is a crucial fixture is absurd! (Yes, I just started consecutive sentences with ‘But’ and ‘Because,’ also separating them in this tangent with the conjunction ‘and’ Apologies to every English teacher I ever had) Nani and the 21 other players on the pitch, as well as the 14 subs, coaching staff and other match officials should be fully aware of this too! You don’t channel the late Bruce Lee when trying to win a ball. WATCH THAT GIF!!! To United fans, it was an AWFUL decision, to neutrals, it was questionable and to United’s detractors, it was FANTASTIC!

However, this is not an absolute condemnation of Nani’s action. You can blame it on the adrenalin rush that we mere individuals cannot completely understand – playing in front of 80,000 screaming fans against one of the biggest clubs in the world, who field the most expensive player on the planet, who just happens to be an ex-teammate and countryman; and you know the world is watching. Also, let’s not forget, Cristiano Ronaldo’s departure from Manchester United was meant to open the door for Nani’s meteoric rise, just like the Portuguese ace’s before him. Instead, he has been reduced to constant fodder for transfer stories. The man must have wanted nothing more than to vanquish his compatriot in front of his home crowd. Nani was amped up for this game but evidently, too amped.

Happier times for Nan and Ron

Now hecklers, particularly from supporters of clubs not even in the Champions League or in serious contention for any silverware this season, went to town on twitter, BlackBerry, Facebook and so on, ridiculing United like they hadn’t been watching the game. United was ahead, albeit courtesy an unfortunate own goal by Real captain, Sergio Ramos, and ‘bossing’ the game as the Brits would say. Again, this was in no way a guarantee that United would have held on to the lead, let alone win the game. However, on the evidence to that point, after almost an hour and the attempts on goal that repeatedly called Diego Lopez in the Real goal into action towards the end of the encounter, a betting man would put money on United doing the business.

To say the red card didn’t change much is absurd because it directly set off the chain of events that led to the revival by Real Madrid. The foul occurred in the 56th. In the 59th, the ‘assaulted’ Arbeloa, a defender, was replaced by creative midfielder, Luka Modric, whose blinder of an equalizer was scored seven minutes later. Remember, this is Luka Modric who had been repeatedly linked to Manchester United , even before an uneven start to his La Liga career. So I guess he had something to prove and his introduction, super strike and deft touches definitely changed the game. Would he have been introduced if it was11-all? Did the numerical advantage give him more room to operate? We will never know but what we do know is that the sending off was the catalyst for Real’s awakening after a subpar hour on the pitch.

The red card aside, it was a beautiful game with Diego Lopez in goal and Luka Modric standing out for Madrid, while Danny Welbeck worked tirelessly for United. However, my hat goes off to the living legend, Ryan Giggs, wo played in his one thousandth game for Manchester United and showed young’ns how to do this son! At 39 (old in most sporting circles), his performance yesterday (and in most of the 999 appearances that came before) is the type of example young hopefuls need to study and aspire to. It’s a shame his millennial game ended the way it did but that’s just life.

Reliable Ryan

Maybe most interesting was Mourinho conceding (honestly or just mind games, who knows?) that the “best team lost.” However, this debate may go on for days or it may end today (if it hasn’t already) but the bottom line is the final score and on the night, it was Manchester United 1 Real Madrid 2 for an aggregate 2-3 score in favor of the once galácticos. Manchester United, unfairly or otherwise, lost a player (to a red card) and lost the match. End of story.

Mourinho: Apologetic or appreciative?

So, in parting, I will say Manchester United was robbed of a chance to advance to the Quarter Finals of the Champions League but the referee is not the culprit. This was an inside job.

If a member of staff steals from you outside the house, is that still an inside job?

I Am Random!

PS – While we’re all losing sleep over whether it was a sending off or not, Nani and the rest of the losing contingent will still be paid their astronomical wages. While a lot of speculation exists as to what footballers are paid, this should give you some idea. Still care so much about the outcome?

ROBBERY. VILLAINY. POLYANDRY.

Will his goals bring title number 20?

So why the ‘criminal’ header? Well, I believe a crime has been committed, hence the headline. The main character in this crime is one Robin van Persie, dubbed RVP by fans and sports writers (hence the headline’s use of R.V.P crimes – I really needed to explain that, like, seriously?), the erstwhile Captain of Arsenal Football Club, the former ‘Heroes of Highbury’ and current Emperors of the Emirates.

If you’re still reading and happen to be in the know about football and stuff, you’re probably thinking, “Oh gosh! Not another bitter Arsenal fan here to complain about van Persie joining United?! Get over it and get on with yer life mate!”

On the contrary, I am a supporter of Manchester United, the United in question. What is being reported as Manchester United purchasing Robin van Persie from Arsenal, I see as Robbery (spotting no jewelry in Arsenal’s trophy room, United pilfered their prize possession), Villainy (it’s pure evil, yanking your main rival’s top gun) by United and Polyandry by van Persie (why not polygamy, you ask? Because I think it’s a bitch move!)

So why am I displeased my team just ‘purchased’ the top player in English football from last season? Well, here’s why… before I became a supporter of Manchester United, I had to give a damn about the sport in the first place. Same goes for any sport/pastime where I have support for any team/individual/entity. So, I love football and can watch two amateur women’s teams play as long as they play a good game. However, being a free spirit in such things, as odd as it may sound, doesn’t come naturally (Read that last statement again and please tell me I’m not crazy). You just have to support a person, squad or ideal. While you can prefer football to tennis, you can’t really ‘support’ football, can you? Yes, you can be neutral but when it reaches a certain level of passion, you find yourself moving towards one side – the conqueror, the underdog, the best looking, the quickest, whatever – and it just sticks. Eric Cantona & Peter Schmeichel drew me to Manchester United and I’ve been a believer ever since. However, I can still watch Arsenal, Liverpool, Newcastle, Getafe, Columbus Crew, Swaziland or even Igbobi Boys play football any day, as long as a quality match is on display and root for whoever. Even when United is playing, I applaud good moves by their opponents and sometimes pray they give us the kick in the pants we deserve for such a shite display. I appreciate football that much.

So what’s my problem with RVP? I feel like he sullied the sport for me a little. He was the Captain of Arsenal FC, the last of a golden era of Gunners football and he joined their biggest rivals in the quest for glory (individual over collective, regardless of what anyone tries to tell you). Forget what United’s cross-town rivals Manchester City did last season; forget the Mourinho years at Chelsea and the red card fiestas against Liverpool; Arsenal FC still remains United’s biggest rivals. So after years of going to battle and kissing the canon that adorns the Arsenal badge as he unleashed shot after shot at the Red Devils, RVP will now dress up in the colors and logo of Mighty Manchester. It just leaves a bad taste in my mouth. One of the greatest things about football is the rivalries. This transfer dishonors one of its greatest.

Warriors of Old – Manchester United’s Roy Keane and Arsenal’s Patrick Vieira share some love

I love basketball more than I love football. And I really LOVE football. So if you know anything about the NBA, its most storied rivalry features the Boston Celtics (the team I support) and the Los Angeles Lakers. The star of the Lakers is Kobe Bryant who is arguably the greatest player of his generation (Tim Duncan is the only one in the same class) and probably one of the 10 greatest (on record) to ever play the game. With Kobe, you love him or hate him, there’s no in-between. Earlier in his career, I absolutely hated Kobe Bryant. I laughed like a villain when my Celtics humiliated him and his Lakers to win the 2008 NBA Championship and cursed him out when his Lakers triumphed over the Celtics two years later.

However, I always respected the man and his talents, actually stating repeatedly that he is, in my opinion, more naturally gifted than one Michael Jeffery Jordan (DO NOT IN ANY WAY take this to mean I’m saying Kobe Bryant is better than Michael Jordan! There are at least five – possibly more – players Kobe has to surpass to even enter Jordan’s rarefied airspace). Today, there’s no love or (real) hate for Kobe, just the respect and appreciation of how he plays the game I love so much, but he plays for the other guys, so I have some apathy towards him 🙂

Anyway, what I’m getting at is this – as much as I respect Kobe Bryant’s abilities, I DO NOT want to see him play for the Boston Celtics! EVER! That would be traumatic and wrong on too many levels. The Celtics are falling behind in the Championship race, so having Kobe will seriously boost our chances BUT IT’S KOBE BRYANT!!!

This is how I feel about Robin Van Persie suiting up for the Red Devils of Manchester. He is a player I have long admired and appreciated. I saw him as the second coming of one of my favorite players ever, himself an Arsenal legend and fellow Dutchman, Dennis Bergkamp. I told many people that the oft-injured van Persie would be devastating to opponents if he just stayed healthy and in his first injury free season? He was the best player in the entire league. Journalists and his peers were in agreement. If he continues to stay healthy and gels with Wayne Rooney and the rest of the squad, I will be front and center screaming, “Get in ye Reds!” while watching them perform but still, I would rather do so without van Persie. For me, it’s like Rooney signing for Chelsea or Leo Messi for Real Madrid… In the powerful words of the Mad Rapper, “Nah san, nah!”

Now, here’s the most interesting bit about my rant and the sentiments of ‘betrayed’ Arsenal fans: WHO CARES WHAT YOU THINK?

The man is rumored to be receiving about £200K per week and would also have collected about £2.25m on his transfer fee. I’m still contemplating whether I should buy credit or petrol.

Robin van Persie will suit up tonight in United’s season opener against Everton, wearing #20, which belonged to one of my favorite Reds ever, the Baby Faced Assassin, Ole Gunnar Solskjaer. I will sit down, I will watch, i will ooh and ah (sadly, with no Cantona) as RVP has a riveting, vile or par debut for Man U. I will get over it. I’d better get over it because if I don’t, trust that not a brass farthing out of that £2.25m or weekly £200K will go towards the purchase of the panadol for this self inflicted headache.

I’m just a sports fan. Irrationally passionate and unnecessarily vocal. I would have been more untrue to myself if I hadn’t spewed this putrid venom than I have accused van Persie of being to Arsenal, it’s fans and the purity of football and its rivalries.

So in closing, begrudgingly but excitedly, I accept Robin van Persie (yeah, like it’s my place to do so) into the United fold and look forward to his first dance amongst the Red Devils of Manchester later tonight.

Arsenal fans, may your pain be our gain and come May 2013, may your pain be our champagne!

What? It’s still a rivalry, ya goonies! I don’t feel sorry for ya!

PLAY BALL!

Glory, glory Man United!

DON’T SWEAR TELEVISION

NOTE: There will be foul language used in this post to drive home some points. Yes, it could have been written without the cuss words but then, it would defeat the purpose. If you’re fine with that, read on, otherwise, look forward to some nice, wholesome, likely irrelevant, definitely random, posts to follow soon. Oh, and this post is rather long, too and all over the place. Smile.

You know how we take things for granted just because they’re always there? Like a chair, for example. You just know it’s there and you park your butt in it, not giving a second thought to its existence; like how it got there. You know, was it once a tree that bore beautifully delicious fruit? Was it a cow mothering playful calves (no, not ‘yams’ as in calf muscles but baby cows, where one is a calf. Don’t get it twisted now. You probably took THAT for granted too! Digression in the first paragraph? *sigh*) before being reincarnated as a Lay-Z-Boy without prior consultation or negotiation? At this point, you’re probably thinking – why do I care or where is Johnny Random going with this? (Would you be surprised, one bit, if I said I didn’t know myself?)

Well, here’s where I’m going. Since the 1980s (80s baby, holla!), well, 1990s in Nigeria, cable television has become a fabric of basic human existence. You just had to have cable television, otherwise, what would you watch? VideoMart, VideoNet & Mega Movies (all video rental clubs, for the uninitiated) could not provide on-demand entertainment. So the rise of MFP, ABG and all other pretenders (be it transmitted via satellite dish or rooftop antenna) was imminent and welcome. However, as the years advanced, a powerhouse rose to monopolize the cable game – DStv, promising ‘so much more.’

Most subscribers incessantly curse DStv for offering limited channels, even though they offer over 250 (or is that 350?) but they go bonkers when the ‘limited’ service is unavailable. For a man of simple tastes and such easy virtue (read that statement however you like, heck, I don’t even know why I wrote it), as long as I can watch the NBA, Around the Horn, PTI and SportsCenter on ESPN and catch the Barclays Premier League on SuperSport, I’m good. Any channel that airs classic sitcoms and movies (okay, and corny T-movie classics like Mega Piranha get airtime too – T-movie: since movies are classified as A or B movies, these programs are too terrible to rank high on the movies’ alphabetical rate scale. And being terrifically terrible, trivial and thrilling, these tearjerkers [from laughing so hard at the unintentional comedy, not from the highly emotional nature of these moving pictures] totally take on a T rating) as well get a look in from me.

Anyway, this isn’t about what or why I watch, neither is it about people’s complaints on viewing limitations. However, if you live in Nigeria, in a major city, chances are you have DStv at home, work or your local beer parlor. The monopoly is real (hitv turned bye-tv real quick) and it is part of your life – DStv is just there!

So here’s what it is – for years, I never thought about what the D and S in DStv stood for. All I knew was that I had DStv and there it was. It was never a big deal because it had become part of life, something that was just there because it was meant to be:

“What’s that?”

“It’s DStv!”

“Oh, ok. Pass the salt, please.”

However, the random generators kicked in one day while watching an old movie, I forget which, and I realized that the D stood for DON’T and the S for SWEAR! DStv is DON’T SWEAR TV! Anybody know what I’m talking about? Well, whether you do or don’t, lemme get into it.

Watching a movie on DStv, do you realize that cuss words are muted? For example, let’s say an angry character goes off, what you’re likely to hear is, “What the ____ would you do if you were me?” or maybe, “Could you please stop?! I don’t need this ____ right now!”

You might sit there thinking, “So why exactly is he complaining; isn’t censorship a good thing? Kids might be watching!” Well, I have two major issues with it:

One. It disrupts the natural flow of the movie/story and just pisses me the hell off.

Two. What then, is the point of their parental guidance feature and the little animation in the top right corner that tells you the age rating of the program and whether it contains N(udity), V(iolence), S(ex) or L(anguage)?

Surely, if the L is highlighted, we know there’s going to be F bombs dropped in there. Yes, I know we cannot control what our children watch all the time but there’s also the parental control function, however, most won’t even bother learning how to activate it, it is, after all, ‘such a hassle.’

Anyway, my issue is not with subscribers but the service provider. You chose to air a movie you advertised to me, the viewer, and then show me an altered version of the movie. What’s that about?

One. Why show it at all, then?

Two. Why bother with Parental Guidance, then, if you’ve gone in to alter already?

It beats and bugs me for real.

However, beyond the colorful ‘fucks,’ ‘bitches’ and ‘shits’ that get no airplay on DStv, the words ___ and _____ are not allowed either for some reason. Why are you confused? Oh, you don’t know what words those are? Well, maybe I don’t either because DON’T SAY TV won’t let the words come out of the characters mouths!!!

Anyway, the words are God and Jesus. I haven’t realized nor paid enough attention to ascertain whether Allah, Buddha and other religious figures receive the same treatment. Homeland is on DStv now, so I may try to catch an episode and keep watch. So, if a guy is trying to plead for his life onscreen, you’re likely to hear:

“Please, for the love of ___, don’t kill me!”

Or how about the startled young lady that didn’t notice her lover sneaking up behind her?

“Oh _____, you scared the ____ out of me!”

I would sure love to watch The Passion of the Christ on DStv. Don’t know how I only just thought of this. However, it seems the censorship is limited to MNet Channels as TBN for example would be something to watch with a ban on ___ and _____, no? I mean, they’d have to blur the name on the screens as well, no? Like the works of the LORD (I believe you’re allowed to say LORD but I may be wrong, thinking someone meant to say ___ when they actually said LORD), the reasoning behind the censorship is a mystery.

So, thinking it was a choice between DON’T SWEAR and DON’T SAY, I learned there was yet another DS while watching Higher Learning on DStv one day. (Oh wow, I just realized that my mind went to work while watching a movie about higher learning – what, you didn’t get that from the title? – so I’m not a total doofus :D) In case you’re unfamiliar with this John Singleton movie or just can’t remember, it focuses primarily on racial tension and self discovery as the transition is made from boys to men and girls to women.

(Possible SPOILER Alert but the movie is about 17 years old)

A pivotal scene in the movie depicts the rape (or attempted, depending on how you look at it) of a female student by a male student (while that might seem the obvious sequence, you’d be shocked), both white. The girl’s roommate is black and she is called a bitch (at least, I believe that’s what he called her, as DStv was sure to hit me with a _____) by the white guy when he calls the room to talk to his victim. You know the sistahs don’t play that, so she calls her black buddies and they are more than willing to mobilize and head over to the guy’s dorm, where an all-white party is in full swing and deliver a can of whupp ass!

Here’s the thing, the rape scene was filmed but it wasn’t anything disturbingly graphic like Monica Bellucci’s rape scene in the disturbing yet brilliant Irreversible. The couple, a bit tipsy, was actually getting along and fooling around. She was willing to have sex with him but her issue was his refusal to wear a condom. He kept going, convincing her it was ok and she started trying to fight him off but he was already inside her. The scene depicts her struggle, fear and anger as she tries to fight him off of her. It goes on for a while before she successfully shoves him away and frantically scrambles out of the room.

Why speak about this scene? Because on DStv, it quickly cuts from them on the bed, her saying no and then to her scrambling away and out. So, having never watched the film, you may think nothing happened because she was able to hustle away from the situation before it went far but he had actually penetrated her and was having unprotected intercourse with her, much to her dismay. I can understand that rape is a very sensitive and touchy subject and they felt some responsibility to downplay it but it is a part of the movie, a pivotal one at that, which you’ve decided to air and again, you have your Parental Guidance ratings in play. Also, the movie was airing after midnight.

So in essence, DStv is also DON’T SEX TV!

In the movie Sex and the City 2, Charlotte has a well-endowed nanny that is averse to wearing bras. During a scene where she’s bathing one of the kids and has a vest on, the kid sprays her with the shower head and of course, it’s wet top city. DStv didn’t show the result of the spray. A Samantha sex scene is also omitted. It has Sex in the title but hey, what do I know?

The premise of Hall Pass has two wives giving their perverted husbands ‘hall passes’ which gives them a week off from marriage to do whatever they want to do. One wife gives her husband one but the other refuses to give her husband the ‘privilege.’ The scene features him going up the stairs behind his wife and when she says there will be no nookie for him that night, he says he forgot to take out the trash and the next scene has him being handed over to his wife by the police with nosy neighbors looking on but DStv would rather have one imagine why he got arrested. The reason is alluded to but can easily be missed. It turns out ‘taking out the trash’ turned into him masturbating in his car and being caught by the police. It was just his chest to head in the shot but his trembling arm and facial contortions pretty much gave it away but I guess DStv would rather have you guess why he got arrested.

Anyway, I have broken it down to DON’T SWEAR, DON’T SAY and DON’T SEX but DON’T SWEAR is the top contender and the reason I say this? I once watched The Original Kings of Comedy on DStv…

Now pause for a minute and let that sink in… The… Original… Kings… of… Comedy… on… DON’T… SWEAR… T… V! Yes.

In case you haven’t seen it or you don’t remember (I seriously doubt either applies to anyone reading this blog), the show closed with the late Bernie Mac breaking down the word, ‘motherfucker’ to the audience. He described it as a noun because “it describes a person, place or thing,” which is why black people use it so much.

Watch the video here and either refresh your memory or witness comic genius at its finest.

So, in closing (finally! yes, even I am tired), I have this to say:

Can someone tell _____________ DStv that they ain’t gotta censor every _____________ program they _____________ air because that _____________ ____ be pissing _____________ the ____ off. Trying to watch a _____________ classic ____________ of a movie and these _____________ here have to go edit out all the _____________ cuss words. What typa _____________ ____ is that? I mean, really, who _____________ does that? So, listen to me clearly you _____________ DStv operators. I pay my _____________ subscription every month, to watch some _____________ quality television and you _____________ keep _______ with the _____________ broadcast, pissing off a ____________! Just _____________ stop and show the _____________ movie the way it was meant to be _____________ shown and stop trying to be some _____________ holier than thou _____. If you keep pulling this _____________ ____, I swear to ___, one of these days, I’mma come on down to your _____________ office and whoop the ____ out of some _____________ ___, comprende?

And I’m out this ____________!

Yes, I really just made you read through 2000+ words of drivel.

I Am Random!

WHEEL OF MISFORTUNE 3: WHEN THE WHEELS COME OFF

NOTE: This is the third post in a three part entry. View the first part here and the second part here.

Previously on WHEEL OF MISFORTUNE…

I had planned to have a nice, quiet weekend.

My darling dearest asks me, “Do you think I can make it from Onikan to the house driving on a flat tyre?”

I close my eyes, clutch my boy tight, swallow then exhale, “I’m coming to get you…”

So as we get to the street where this mishap occurred, there’s a guy frantically pointing towards the passenger side of my car and he said to me, “You have a flat tyre!”

Sunday… dusk

After viewing Act 2, someone asked me who I offended; someone else said, ‘When it rains it pours,’ and on cue, on this fateful Sunday, the rain started to pour…

CALM DOWN!!!

If it really did start to rain, I’d be too traumatized still to write this piece. With all else that had happened, I’d really seek out whoever I may have offended. But rain falling would have made a more enjoyable read for you, right? Wicked somebody!

Anyway, I ‘woosah’ knowing I have two flat tyres to content with. A voice tells me it was on one of those two aeroport runs that this mishap occurred and I got the flat. The problem is, my tyre pressure gauge is permanently on and the failsafe options in the manual haven’t worked and the service center mechanics are clueless as to what’s up, so a manual check of each tyre (which every good driver is supposed to do, anyway) before I drive off is what I always do, however, remember the situation – stuck Missus, cranky son, setting sun – I was in, so a quick getaway was all I was thinking of. But really, what are the odds of having a flat tyre on the way to sorting out another?

Sigh!

So, I finally get to where the wife is parked and she has a huge expression of relief on her face and quickly thanks me; before bypassing me and going for her son. Yeah, I’m used to that by now, no grudges. It is a stress free weekend after all, eh? I notice about six – eight grown men, not 20 feet away, playing football in the streets with tyres (the irony) as goalposts. Yes, the wife asked these gentlemen to assist her with changing the tyre and the said, emphatically I might add, if for nothing else, drama’s sake, NO!!! As I stood there gripping the tyre iron, I thought to myself, ‘What would Van Damme do?’ And it came to me…

He’d go there and politely interrupt, saying he didn’t mean to interrupt, in his awful accent which would be more responsible for their confused faces than his actual interruption. He would then explain, while absolutely murdering the word ‘chivalry,’ that it is rude not to assist a damsel in distress. One of them would make a rude remark, the others would laugh, the leader of the gang would poke his chest while informing him it was in his best interests to return to his woman and stop ruining their game.

What would follow is the lone Van Damme taking out all these muscular football players with a combination of the tyre iron, their football, makeshift goalposts and a belt. Oh, I like the sound of that but the tyre iron looks up at me and says in a very heavy Waffi accent, “But bros, you no be Jean Claude, na?!” I look at them in disgust one more time, as they play on, clueless to the fact that a talking tyre iron just saved them an ass whooping but I digress.

So, we’re parked in front of some office building and when I go about looking for bricks to wedge the tyres, the security dude starts walking towards me, I’m guessing to tell me I can’t park there. I think the devil in my eye (yeah, just the one eye) made him change course and his plan entirely as he said nothing, walking past instead. The wife is now in my car with the son, while I set to work on her car. I lose some valuable minutes of daylight because her car jack instructions are not written in common sense. That’s what you get with a Skoda, eh? (Yeah, blame the manufacturer for your nincompoopery but seriously, it wasn’t straightforward, at least, not to my hot head).

So, I get my straightforward Toyota jack – set, insert pin and keep rolling, rolling, rolling like Limp Bizkit – and get to work on her tyre while getting all sorts of grease all over my body. I failed to mention that I’d just had my bath for the first time all lazy weekend about 15 minutes before the distress call came. Yeah, and now, here I am, a little grease monkey. While I’m changing her tyre, their football comes within inches of me and I’m fuming, contemplating whether or not to deflate their ball but the wheel knot in my hand says to me, “Bros, even Chuck Norris no dey first find wahala.” Yeah, it had a point and I was racing against daylight but the ball retriever – yeah, they are dogs, aren’t they? – was smart enough not to make eye contact with me for if looks could kill…

the flat tyre mafia

I’m actually proud of myself as I make quick work of her car and set off to face mine, while she and Sonny Jim move into her car. For the first time, after having this car for about 18 months, I realize that my spare is the hilarious doughnut, at least, that got me smiling a little bit. So, after I jack the Toyota up – shoulders killing me at this point but I summon the healing power of Wolverine which has my exhaust in hysterics, amused by my continued idiocy – I get to loosening the knots which are really wedged in there. It’s getting darker now, so the real fear is misplacing the knots, so they have to be carefully placed. After I’m done with the knots, I get up to remove the tyre but it won’t budge. I’m like, “Oh, hell no!” I shake it, I hit it, I try to roll it, I hug it, sing to it, offer it some gum… nada! The tyre ain’t having it! I want to just collapse to my knees, drop everything and cry but my son would at that point in time learn how to walk and proceed to get out of the care and slap the [offensive content of his diaper] out my mouth. So, instead, I ‘woosah’ again. I try to get the tyre out for a few more minutes but no joy. My wife gives possibly the most sympathetic look that has ever been recorded in human history. Wish I had a photo.

the stubborn tyre and the teased doughnut

So, defeated and dejected, I start to screw the knots back into place on the flat tyre then proceed to lower the car and watch as the tyre flattens against the concrete. I get up to start throwing all the stuff into the trunk and somehow, the rolling pin for the car jack manages to scratch my wrist and via some security lights in the distance, I notice a little blood. ‘Just great,’ I think. ‘Typical to still add physical pain to the emotional and spiritual turmoil I’ve already endured on this stress free weekend.’ Anyway, all loaded up, I ask my wife to drive behind me as I… as I… drive the car from Onikan to the house on a flat tyre!

the cut

Who is in the garden?

I Am Random!

PS – The lesson I got from this is, always give proper answers to questions you’re asked and save everybody a lot of hassle. That said, I must be the worst student around as my answers are more roundabout than Ibadan’s Ring Road. If anything, got to spend time with the family, eh? And that cut wasn’t as little as I thought. While it thankfully wasn’t too deep, it was rather long and its leavings now serve as a permanent reminder to not make any plans.

the scar

Have I learned my lesson, though? Of course not! This weekend, I have PLANned to watch all four movies in the American Pie series without fail. If I’m not too ashamed, I’ll tell you how that goes.

The index and the middle!

WHEEL OF MISFORTUNE 2: ROLLIN’ IN THE DEEP

NOTE: This is the second post of a three part entry. View the first part here.

Previously on WHEEL OF MISFORTUNE…

I’m learning that making plans isn’t always a good plan.

I had ‘planned’ to have a nice, quiet weekend where I did didlee squat; yet, I now embark upon my second odyssey to the aeroport in about an hour.

On Sunday, the wife once again handed the little man over to me as she was on her way to get her hair braided, so that was the day gone.

Little man was very good until he started getting a bit cranky towards the evening.

My phone rings and it’s his mother. My darling dearest asks me, “Do you think I can make it from Onikan to the house driving on a flat tyre?”

 

Sunday evening

So, here I am warring with a cranky infant and I now have a panicky mother/wife on the phone. It’s about six pm at this time and my ‘naff-all’ weekend is going splendidly… NOT! So I say to her, after some heavy sighing, “Well, you can if you have money to buy a new tyre.” Not the most helpful or nice thing to say but understandably, I’m rather irritable at this point. She lets out a classic, ‘Ah!” which needs no further explanation – shelling out N13,000 – N19,000 on a tyre (which I would have to go buy, by the way) is so not in her plans. I go, “But there’s a vulcanizer (anyone besides Nigerians use this term?) at the top of that street!” She responds, “Yes but he’s not there!” It is, after all, a Sunday. It’s hard to find anyone, anywhere actually working. She utters some indecipherables and I close my eyes, clutch my boy tight, swallow then exhale, “I’m coming to get you, hang on…”

So much for stress-free, eh? So, I put the lil’ chairman down on his mat and he screams non-stop as daddy runs helter-skelter, apologizing frantically while wading in the dark… Yes, the dark as there’s no electricity and the bloody inverter might have been made as a public primary school Science project. Ok, I tell myself, get his bag… get some milk… clean diapers (yes, plural)… nappy rash cream… change of clothes? No sir, he’s not going for a sleepover, he’ll be fine… get some water as well…   get some wet wipes… toys… bibs… WHAT ELSE??? I’m just grabbing blindly at this point but hope I have the necessities. This will be a very short trip, after all, no?

Tick… tock…

I manage to hustle little man into his car seat and strap his hollering self in. I wonder what any neighbors that saw me must have thought, what, with a screaming infant in one hand and a bag, keys, I think shoes (Oi! Don’t judge me) and whatnot in the other. That’s their bee’s wax. Anyway, I get him in and then there’s a little dilemma… his car seat is behind the driver’s seat and is now an issue as I won’t be able to see him. My options are: get in and go, trusting he’ll be fine or lose the 45 seconds or thereabouts of daylight moving it to the other side would cost me. Thinking… ok, I’m not ready to put in another 14 months just yet to get another adorable, hollering poo monster to replace this chairman and even if I was, I’m not physically equipped to do that as I know the Missus (who put us in this position, mind – yeah, twasn’t intentional but still…) is not even interested. So I swap the seat’s position and head off. Guess who’s still crying all this while… ME! Ok, I was just crying out like a likkle [approved term for female dog] while my son was confirming his vocal chords were in tiptop nick.

So, as we get onto the street where this mishap has occurred, there’s a guy frantically pointing towards the passenger side of my car. I’m highly upset at this point and throw him a cold stare like, ‘Doesn’t this dude think I know there’s a huge scratch on the side of my car?’ But there’s something about the way he’s pointing, so I stop the car, exhale, back up then roll down the window. He opens his mouth to speak and as the words form, I don’t know whether to laugh or cry. You’ll never guess what this man said to me…

“You have a flat tyre!”

1 + 1 is greater than 1 x 1!

I Am Random!

WHEEL OF MISFORTUNE

With each passing day, well maybe not day, but more and more as my life progresses, I’m learning that making plans isn’t always a good plan. Sure, it’s good, scratch that, wise, to be prepared but for certain things, coasting and just going with the flow is the best course of action.

Why this realization? Well, a few weekends ago, I had ‘planned’ to have a nice, quiet weekend where I did didlee squat! This includes not powering up the PlayStation as its position in the house doesn’t allow for horizontal gaming 😦 Who wants to buy this lazy boy a La-Z-Boy? 😀 So, watching movies/series on the sofa/bed did fall under the didlee squat agenda.

However, since my life is a bad sitcom, you know that wasn’t happening. There just had to be some drama. The events of the Sunday have made the Saturday events a total blur as I cannot recall what went wrong at this point in time but my Monday assessment of the planned weekend was #EpicFail! (Yeah, I discovered twitter and being ha(r)sh to tags) meaning Saturday couldn’t have been so good but Sunday definitely took the cake and ate it too!

THAT’S WHAT HAPPENED ON SATURDAY!!! (Never underestimate the power of taking a dump. Being enclosed in the confines of a well ventilated bathroom works wonders for the memory and creative juices. Thanks to WordPress for the BlackBerry, my writing may drastically improve if I do more porcelain throne inspired musings :D)

Anyway, my big bro had been in town for our cousin’s wedding, some work stuff and some hard rocking (not necessarily in that order). When it was all said and done and time for him to skiddadle back to the UK, I was charged with driving him to the aeroport (just something about that word I like and besides, there’s air everywhere, so the atmosphere in itself should count as the AIR port, no? Again, characteristically, I DIGRESS!!!) early on the Saturday morning of my ‘do naff all day’ day. Ideally, noon was the earliest I should have gotten out of bed on such a day but here I was on my feet from about seven on the AM.

So, off I go with my bro to the aeroport and I think there might have been a little traffic but it was a pretty stress free journey; we had a good chat, said our goodbyes and then I turned around to head home, happy that I might still be able to get some well-planned shuteye. Got home, track pants off, Greg Louganis type dive into bed and on to some classic Zs we go!

NO!

Huh?

I said NO!

But whyyyyyyyyyyy?

Yo mama wants YOU!

Sigh!

“Hey mama, how are you? What can I do for you?”

“The driver isn’t here yet and he’s stopped picking up his phone and my flight is in about an hour. Can you drop me off at the airport, please? Thanks honey, I only carried you for nine grueling months and raised you, that’s all I did.”

Ok, of course she didn’t say that last bit but she didn’t have to. Mothers never have to but they know how to burrow it deep into your skull, psyche and conscience so as to guilt trip you all around the world.

So (worry not, I’m out the stinker and now lying in bed. Dame Judi Stench has been air freshened up. So much air in this piece. Maybe I should rename it ‘HOT AIR’… Digression!!!), I man up, grab her 50 pieces of luggage (another maternal staple – plenty load!) and log them into the car and embark upon my second odyssey (what, you’ve been reading this long and haven’t caught on to my penchant for exaggeration?) to the aeroport in about an hour, this time to the new domestic wing to see mama off.

We get there in good time even though I couldn’t put the pedal to the metal like I would have liked to because the mother told me numerous times to calm down while she clutched unto her safety belt, so I had to ‘Woosah’ my way on. So we made it, said our goodbyes and then I hightailed (now, is it high-tail or hot-tail? Either way, what the hell?) it on outta there, destination: bed.

Finally got home and received some sympathy from the wife who promptly handed our adorable infant son over to me to mind for the next few minutes or so as the nanny was off for the weekend. If I hadn’t realized it before then, by this point, I knew my plan had failed, at least, for Saturday. So I sucked it up and looked forward to a stress free Sunday.

I did manage to sleep quite a bit on Sunday but once I woke up, the wife once again handed the little man over to me, only this time, she was on her way out to get her hair did, braided no less, so that was the day gone. Don’t get me wrong, I love my son to death but he’s an infant, which involves a lot of crying to get what you want; vicious slaps to my face I can’t return and Niagra Falls levels of drool. Let’s not even talk about poop. Yes, this is what I signed up for but not on my lazy weekend! Thoughts of lacing the milk with booze did cross my mind but with everything else that had gone wrong, I didn’t see any positive results coming from that, so adhered to the voice of reason on my shoulder and did not tamper with his bottle.

To be fair to the little man, he was very good. Not much crying, if any at all and he slept quite a bit. We chilled and enjoyed each other’s company until he started getting a bit cranky towards the evening. In trying to calm him down, my phone rings and it’s his mother. “Please, let this be a call asking me what I want from Tastee Fried Chicken and not any more bad news,” I thought to myself as I answered.

This is me we’re talking about, right? So, my darling dearest asks me, “Do you think I can make it from Onikan to the house driving on a flat tyre?”

Why am I ending this post like this?

I Am Random!